Reflections on Social Media

Yesterday I was on Facebook the same as always.  Checked in with some of my friends, posted in a few groups, found a few book recommendations…nothing out of the ordinary.  A few hours later I went to check back in, and I had been logged out of all of my accounts across all devices.  Not only from Facebook itself, but also from Messenger.  I tried to log back in, but my ID/password was not being recognized.  I went through all of the steps to recover my account, but nothing worked.  I then went to a help page where I was asked to submit a photo ID for identity verification.  Now, this makes no sense, because I rarely use personal photos for my profile picture…so how would FB know if the photo was accurate?  Regardless, I scanned one (with redacted info) for verification.  That link was broken.  I finally gave up and went to bed.  This morning, I tried the whole process again…and it fortunately worked.

FB asked for a two-factor identification system, but wouldn’t accept the codes from the 3rd party app that THEY had recommended to me.  I kept getting the message that I could go to the FB app, then click on Menu/Settings/Security/etc to get the code verification.  Seriously?  Telling someone that they need to go to an area that is only accessible via log-in to get information that they need to log in, when they can’t log in to begin with?  #facebooklogic

So what have I learned from this experience?  Yes, it was less than 24 hours.  No, I wasn’t going through FB withdrawal.  What concerns me is the suddenness.  There was no warning. I don’t know how I got logged out of my accounts.  I didn’t do it. I realized that nearly all of the contacts I have made are solely through FB.  For the most part, that isn’t too worrisome because we know how FB friends can be, but I have some potential work contacts and it would be a problem to lose access to them.

The re-verification process was unnecessarily complicated, but I found out that it could be simpler.  

  1. Add a cell number to your account.  I resisted doing so, because I didn’t want them to have that info.  It would have saved me a lot of time if I had had it connect though.
  2. Add trusted friends.  FB allows you to add 3-5 friends who will be allowed to send you a link to gain access to your account if you ‘ve been locked out.
  3. Never assume that it can’t happen to you.  I was waaaaay more political in 2016-2017 than I have been recently.  I would have expected it back then; now, it is just a mystery.

Most importantly, however, is to take whatever contacts are vital to you, and make a real life connection outside of social media.  You don’t realize the reliance you have until it is inaccessible.  Make the personal connections in real life.  If they live too far away, exchange e-mails and/or phone numbers for texting.  Look at what and who matter, and make sure you don’t lose them. 

It ain’t fair

Why can we get the 2019 Africa Cup of Nations Qualifying match between Equatorial Guinea and Sudan, from Equatorial Guinea, yet STILL NOT GET A FREAKING MLB GAME?!?!?

And don’t even get me started on Turkish soccer….

Opening Day

Today is the first game of the 2018-19 DA season.  Nearly half of the team from last year didn’t make the cut for this year, so everyone is excited to see how this new team fares.  Reports from practices over the past month have been largely positive.  

It’s been super hot all week, and today it’s raining (of course).  I won’t complain…can’t imagine standing in 100+ heat.  And I definitely won’t miss worrying my kid’s hydration when the turf is usually 10-15 degrees hotter.  

Good luck to all DA teams today!

Social Media

Still working on the widgets (and apparently learning a whole new vocabulary). For the time being, if you want to follow me elsewhere, you’ll have to copy and paste the links into your browser.  Sorry for the inconvenience; I’ll update when I get the links active.  

Flood of Book Reviews

Over the next few days, I’m going to be adding the reviews that I’ve completed over the past few months.  With a little bit of luck, I’ll remember to backdate and tag them all, so eventually you’ll be able to search by genre to find new book suggestions!  

Well, that’s the current plan, anyway….

About the Fiction…one last thing

This blog was almost called “Fireflies, Fiction, and Free Kicks.”  Fortunately one of my best friends talked me down from making it too obnoxiously long.  But there will be an important aspect to this blog, and that will be book reviews.  I have been an avid reader since…well, since I could first read.  In second grade, I won a reading competition.  Big deal, right?  It was one that was held at the junior high school where my mom was an English teacher. That’s right, little 2nd grade me beat a bunch of 8th graders. 

My love for books has never diminished.  This past May, I became a member of #NetGalley.  I receive Advanced Reader Copies (ARCs) from publishers in exchange for honest reviews.  It’s exciting on so many levels, because I get to read buzz-worthy books, but I also get insight into an author’s thought process.  Hey, maybe someday I’ll have courage to write that book that’s been kicking around in my head….

Anyway, you’ll see my reviews on this page. I hope that people grab recommendations from them.  Nothing would make me happier than to know that people read and spread the word on a book that I recommended. 

What does it mean?

Fireflies and Free Kicks.  What the heck, right?  

I live in the mid-Atlantic region of the U.S.  In the summer, we get a lot of fireflies…and I mean A LOT!  Back in June, I was sitting outside on our deck, and I looked at the trees that surround our yard.  It looked like a Disney forest!  I mean, seriously, like one of those floats from the Electric Light Parade (anybody remember that?)!  Anyway, there were literally thousands of fireflies lighting up the area, and I started thinking about how well that represented my life.  I’ve had lots of differing experiences (from jobs to travel and everything in between) that all kind of flit about in my head as memories.  But every single one has shaped me and lit the way for where I am now; and I know that they will continue to lead me. The realization was both magical and inspiring. 

So that’s the “Fireflies” part; what about the “Free Kicks?”  Easy enough…my son plays elite soccer.  In fact, he is a member of the Development Academy, which is the highest level of youth soccer in the country; it feeds directly into the Youth National Teams.  As of right now, that is his goal.  (Actually, given a recent announcement, his goal is to be on the MNT for the 2026 World Cup when it’s hosted by the U.S., Canada, and Mexico).  Our family time is spent at the soccer fields, whether it’s practice, league games or tournaments.  And if it’s not watching him, then pro games are on the TV (yay for Dish Network, where we can get soccer from any country in the world, but still can’t get a lousy Oakland A’s baseball game).  I promise not to bore with only soccer stuff, but it will be a pretty safe bet that many of posts will be created either at the pitch or traveling to a game somewhere!

So there you have it: “Fireflies and Free Kicks.”    

And away we go…

So here it is.  But what is it?  It’s a place for me to be creative; whether it’s a review of a book, musings from a soccer field, or general observations, this is where I’ll be sharing my wisdom (ha ha) with anyone who can sit down long enough to read a post.  Glad to have you along!

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